To dream of pole dancing represents you or someone else that is flaunting desirability or self-worth. Feeling good noticing ones own abilities or talents. Teasing or showing off to others how attractive, wanted, or important you are. It may also reflect bragging about abilities or self-worth. It may also be a sign that you or someone that is “rubbing it in” that they are better in some way.
Example: A woman dreamed of seeing the woman her husband had in the past cheated on her with dancing on a stripper pole. In waking life she was having heated arguments with her husband. The stripper pole reflected her husband feeling good noticing himself not having to care about what she wanted.