To dream of a lap dance represents teasing or tantalizing yourself with desire for your goals. You may be doing something to get close to a goal that you know you can’t ever achieve. It may also reflect sexual attraction for someone that you are spending time with while knowing it can’t ever happen. A lap dance may be a sign that you need to be more open about your true intentions or that you need to be more objective about what you can honestly achieve in life.
To dream of giving may reflect your wish to tease someone with achievement or goals you know they can’t really have. It may also reflect your use of sexual attraction to control someone.