To dream of hating someone or something represents feelings of serious resentment, frustration, or anger. Waking life grievances or strong dislike. Feelings of contempt. Powerful jealousy or envy. Frustrations with your own flaws or faults. Repressed aggression or fearing true confrontation. A complete lack of a sense of humor about a sensitive subject.
Alternatively, hate in a dream may mirror waking life feelings of hatred, frustration, or serious anger. A wish to seek revenge on someone. Having a true enemy.
To dream that someone hates you represents feelings about situations or relationships that never produce happy outcomes when you interact with them. Feeling unlucky in some area of your life or that someone doesn’t like you. Feeling that a situation in unwelcoming or unfriendly to your interests. Situations that feel bitter or jealous of you. Experiencing hostility to your presence or views. Fearing hostility or being yelled at. A naive or misinformed view of someone you believe hates you when you haven’t even spent time speaking to them. Experiencing hostile ignorance or bigoted behavior.
Example: A woman dreamed of feeling intense hatred for a man. In waking life she was a waitress who was frustrated by her boss forcing her to politely serve dinner to a child molester who had been mentioned in the news.