Spooning dream of spooning represents a positive waking life situation that give you exactly what you want. A positive experience that leaves you totally in control, with full access, or always letting you having your way no matter what.
The person being penetrated represents a personality trait or a person in your life that is giving you exactly what you want. The person doing the penetrating represents a personality trait getting everything they want.
Spooning in a dream reflects positive waking life experiences or relationships with people that feel good, leave you in control, and make you feel powerful.
Example: A man dreamed of spooning a woman he had just met. In waking life he was sharing his art work with this woman over the Internet and she always had something good to say about his art no matter what. He felt like he could never lose or be rejected.